2017: Like a Mother

Like a mother

My mantra this year was “treat yourself,” well… “treat yo’ self” to be exact (see pic below) because when there is a human growing inside of you, you deserve it. There was ice cream, and cake, doughnuts and Shake Shack. All year long.

We moved from London to NYC and I spent the first few days of the year saying goodbye to my favorite city, wining & dining (although mostly dining, obvi) and savoring my favorite park walks. I wanted to give NYC a try and while it was a tough transition for me, I decided to find places I love and to explore as best I could. I spent most of the year pregnant and exploring ice cream shops in search of the best scoop in Manhattan and the rest of the year snuggling the best baby girl and perfect addition to our family.

2017 is a year I will never forget (in no particular order):

  • Became a family of three. 
  • Pretended to do Dry January to cover for my pregnancy and fooled the world. DO YOU GUYS EVEN KNOW ME.
  • My family thought we made up the term Duncle to describe Madison & Matt’s new roles (Dad and Uncle) and then Googled it and decided nope, not going to use that name.
  • Made an ombre cake for my 30th birthday and was really impressed with myself. (Victoria: 1, Pinterest: 0)
  • Got into baking cakes in general and bought more bags of flour and sugar than the doctor recommends.
  • Spent the first three quarters of the year marketing YouTube Red Originals which involved outreach to famous cats of Instagram.
  • Was almost on a call with Channing Tatum.
  • Ate the best reuben ever at my aunt and uncle’s own restaurant.
  • Came this close to starting the newest dance craze during the Teen Choice Awards. Can you even High Water?
  • Went cold turkey with coffee and lived to tell the tale.
  • Tried to grow herbs in my new apartment but ended up using the baby as an excuse for their swift decline.
  • Made a catnip sock for the cats to show them we love them even though there is small human now living with us and it’s sitting in the closet now because they were not impressed.
  • Didn’t do the laundry once in our NY apt. Madison, you are a real stand up guy!!
  • Took the subway the wrong direction one afternoon (express train, oof) and in doing so also gave tourists bad directions which I insisted were correct. Chalking that one up to pregnancy brain.
  • First trimester had me so sleepy I almost missed the end of the Super Bowl this year and omg I never would have lived that down!! #YeaPats
  • Developed a fear of flushing the toilet in my apt as don’t want to wake the new resident. WHY does it sound like we are on an airplane?!
  • Shared Madison’s LinkedIn post about his new job at LinkedIn.
  • Tried 22 ice cream shops in NYC (I will meet you at Morgansterns, Van Leeuwens or Ample Hills or Ice & Vice any day, just say the word) and ate ice cream pretty much every day of my pregnancy – shout out to the Whole Foods freezer section and Brickley’s in RI.
  • Cried for joy when we opened the envelope from the doctor and found out we were having a girl.
  • Went to West Elm 6x before settling on the right couch.
  • Twinned with my bitmoji in our preggo yoga attire.
  • Went to yoga once a week. THIS IS A BREAKTHROUGH. But don’t get too excited, I still can’t touch my toes.
  • Saw a momma whale teach her baby how to breech in Maui & somehow managed not to puke on the boat without dramamine.
  • Joined some moms groups on Facebook so I can up my lurking game.
  • Dug a pit for my belly at the beach so I could tan my back (okay Madison dug it).
  • Got snowed in while at Sundance Film Fest and also saw Ty Burell. Oh I also saw Anne Hathaway in Central park! #Squirrel #CelebDoppleganger
  • Shared my daily ice cream treat to IG stories and became an actual ice cream influencer (Thanks Breyers). Also probably lost a few followers who didn’t feel like craving ice cream every day.
  • Our boat was stormed at sea (the pond), don’t worry though, just the Coast Guard this time doing their routine check. Pirates would have made a better story, I know.
  • The number of times I discuss my baby’s BMs per week is more than I would have anticipated pre-baby. Also, she pooped in 3 different states on one day!! That has to be a record, right?
  • Confirmed it’s #truelove (twuewuv) when Madison gave up wine with me this year
  • Within a 24 hour period had someone spit up on me, poop on me and pee on me. #momlife
  • Exclusively shop on Amazon now.
  • Spent a day with new friends at a baby massage class. Note: need to find Mom massage classes.
  • Decorated my apt with non Ikea furniture, and feeling quite grown up.
  • Never had so many doctors appointments in all my life.
  • Hosted my first Thanksgiving (hey, I made the cranberry sauce!), saw the Macy’s Day balloons get blown up (Olaf was a hit with the two month old) and also bought our first real Christmas tree!
  • On that note, my stocking now says Mom. 🙂 🙂
  • Added some sunshine and IG prowess to the Anchor team. (Lulu is a total #GirlBoss)
  • Brought a baby back from the UK (in case you were wondering).
  • While my miles weren’t as good as 2016, I still made it to London, Park City, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Maui, Charleston & Pawley’s Island, New Hampshire, DC, Philadelphia, Albany, Chicago & Rhode Island.
  • Watched Stranger Things and now do a double take when I see Christmas lights.
  • Pretty much stopped using Twitter except for a few choice moments.

Inspired by the last song I heard in the Uber on the way to Mount Sinai East, here are Victoria’s New 2018 Rules, I count ‘em:

  1. One. Don’t pick up the phone bc it’s always on silent so we don’t wake the babe.
  2. Two. Wake up, wake up, no seriously, minimum 3x a night.
  3. Three. Sleep when the baby sleeps. You know you’re gonna wake up groggy in the morning. And if you’re sleep deprived, you will look like Mommy Zombie.

 

Mommy Zombie and all, there’s no getting around that this year was all about le bebe. It’s been so special meeting her and learning more about her as she grows after nine months of anticipation. I love being a mom, and now that Madison and I have a daughter I can’t even imagine what life would be like without her. 2017 gave me the best gift ever, an outpouring of love from friends and family and got me… like a mother.

-V

 

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2 thoughts on “2017: Like a Mother

  1. Nana says:

    Victoria so thrilled ur back to it! Always loved 💕 reading above your experiences. Now we have Alice too. Good to see the “3”. Love Nana

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